BRIGHTER TOMORROW

Did you experience the moment that you needed to adjust or needed to hide what you really felt?

I admire it if you overcome these feelings and continue overcoming them.

I have once or should I say multiple times experienced this moment.

I look back during my secondary level when I needed to hide my feelings because I needed to. It is the situation, and I think I should do it for the best for that situation.

Recently, there have been these moments of confession that have been blurted out.

This is all about relationships. The first is about relationships with friends. I admire this person who raised the concern and is being honest about the situation, wherein I should adjust because one of their guests (who was my friend before), was also there. I should have adjusted to attend that gathering because she was there, but before the final call, she will be staying whole the time. Which, I should not be able to go with them because of that friend of mine, who doesn’t want me to be there. (I still cherished the friendship, but I needed to respect what she wanted and the better action for all of us. Still loving, but for now, loving from afar).

Second is another story of relationships. I admire his courageous act of confessing. It is indeed a good step. However, the action is good, but the timing is not. The intention was not stated clearly. Stating the confession in the most comfortable moment, na namamangka sa dalawng ilog. If the timing and action were right, it might be successful.

In the sequence of this life. There will be times that we need to be hurt but those moments have a lesson after. It might be hard to explain and understand but putting the meaning behind of this. In the first scenario, I learned that there were times when is needed to be given up especially when it is repetitive and abusing you. Didn’t understand where you were coming from. Or for the sake of everyone. In the second scenario, the act of confession might be a way to do what is right for the next prospect. It might not be for you, but it is a way to increase the courage of someone.

At the end of the day, these painful moments might be hard to understand, but it is a learning experience for you or for somebody else. For now, hold on, and move on. Look for a brighter tomorrow!